A single mother of two young kids, Penang-born XYW arrived in
Singapore 10 years ago and has struggled to meet ends meet ever since
her divorce in 2012."My ex-husband, a Singaporean, left me for a woman from China," she told Stomp.The 37-year-old does odd jobs such as cleaning houses and washing
clothes in the day, while her nights are spent toiling away as a
full-time employee at a steamboat restaurant in Katong.
XYW, who declined to be identified over fears of losing her job,
said: "As I am a Permanent Resident, I have very little subsidies."My take-home salary from the restaurant is $700+ while I can earn
$50 for every home I clean (about four hours each time). Sometimes, I
have to clean up to 20 houses a month."
Despite her hard work, XYW had hit a rough patch as her children's school fees were overdue and she lacked funds.
But a generous $2,000 tip in cash from a regular customer helped her tide over the crisis.
XYW initially thought the extra cash was a "mistake" as the
customer's bill was only $66, but broke down in tears upon realising the
truth.
Stomp got in touch with the customer, whom XYW identified as Mr Atwell Tay, to find out what inspired his actions.
"I felt that it was something that I had to. My family is also in the
F&B business, so I know what a tough industry it can be, having
helped my father in the kitchen before. It requires a lot of energy and
can be very stressful.
"She (XYW) is also a very hardworking person, and this is a quality
that's hard to find in Singapore nowadays. I appreciate and am impressed
by people who work hard instead of stretching their hands out to ask
for money," said the 32-year-old oil trader.
Mr Tay, who had been accompanied by his wife and eldest daughter
(aged nine) at the restaurant, also encouraged XYW to stay strong and
continue to give her best. STRONG FAMILY VALUES
Mr Tay's love for his family is evident from the way he spoke about them during his exclusive video interview with Stomp.
His main motivation for helping others comes from wanting to be an
exemplary role model for his three daughters: "Being humble is a virtue
and I want them to see that." And
his moving quote about what our two hands are for? It was a lesson that
he derived from his mother when he was 19 years old and had yet to
serve his National Service (NS).
Admitting that he went through a rebellious streak during his teenage
years, Mr Tay said: "She told me I could do whatever I want, but to
always have commitment and consistency, or one would never succeed." GENEROSITY =/= WEALTH
He first made headlines in 2015 after being given a flashy Lotus supercar by his mother for his birthday that year. But
in response to critics who think that his family background allows him
to be generous with money, Mr Tay pointed out that lending a helping
hand is not about being well-off.
"Coming from a poor family and becoming rich doesn't mean you will
end up helping everyone. Neither does coming from a rich family and
being successful mean you will help other people. It all boils down to
the individual," he shared.
Likewise, XYW had only good things to say about Mr Tay.
She told Stomp, "He visits the restaurant about thrice a week, always in a different car.
"However, I am really touched because he always clears his own plates, telling my colleagues that it's okay and to relax.
"Whenever I serve wealthy people, they are usually very proud. But Mr
Tay is humble and always greets us, saying thank you and everything."
Mr Tay, who is also a venture capitalist, revealed that he is no
stranger to people taking advantage of his kindness and generosity.
Still, he remains undeterred and wants to act as an inspiration for the younger generation.
When presented with a Stomp Goody Bag, Mr Tay expressed his wishes to donate it to his daughter's school.
"I would like to donate the Goody Bag to someone else because I am
not here for the publicity. I'm here because I hope that more people in
our generation can work hard."
