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More than 1,000 fans attend Hong Lim Park memorial for late Jonghyun of SHINee

More popularly known as Jonghyun, the 27-year-old lead singer of Korean boy band SHINee died on Dec. 18.His death has been ruled a suicide and sent fans around the world reeling.

Orderly tribute

The sombre mood at Hong Lim Park stood in stark contrast to the pubescent hysteria typically associated with K-pop fantaticism.Orderly queues started before 7pm and snaked around the park.
The girls in attendance were in their teens. They arrived in black or white.
They queued up patiently to enter the park. Detailed identity checks against pre-registration forms were conducted.
Those who could not enter — as only 1,000 people were allowed into the compound at one time — patiently waited their turn.
Many of them brought along flowers and personal letters as tributes.
Post-it notes were also available on site for them to pen messages.

Highlight depression

The main organiser, who wished to remain anonymous and declined to be interviewed by The Straits Times, told Channel News Asia that she was surprised at how big a news story the memorial has become.
The 22-year-old said she has been a K-pop fan since she was 14.
She also clarified that she is not part of any SHINee or Jonghyun fan club. She organised the event with a few friends.
She said she hopes this tragedy and spate of events will make mental illness issues less a taboo.

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The fans gathered at Hong Lim Park subsequently observed one minute of silence. Many were seen breaking into sobs when it ended.
Others came forward to comfort and hug those who were crying.
The fans gathered also sang SHINee’s debut song Replay. They waved lightsticks and recorded the moment on their mobile phones.
They also shouted “You did well, you really did well, Jonghyun-ah!” in Korean at the end.
This was a reference to the suicide note Jonghyun left behind, in which he wrote: “Please tell me I did a good job… You’ve worked hard. You’ve really gone through a lot. Goodbye.”




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JB petrol station murder: Victim was allegedly a gang leader, dispute due to turf war

A turf war between two underworld gangs is the reason behind the brutal killing of a man at a Johor Baru petrol station on Dec 17, according to Malaysian officials.The victim, 44-year-old Tan Ah Choy, was stabbed and mowed down twice by a BMW at a Shell petrol station in Taman Pelangi, located just 4km from the Causeway.
The victim was conscious but was believed to have died while help was on the way, reports The Straits Times.

"Yes, he was the leader of one of the gangs. It stemmed from a turf dispute between two rival gangs," Home Minister Ahmad Zahid Hamidi told reporters yesterday.
"The four suspects who attacked the man have also been identified, police are hunting them down as we speak."
Asked about the possibility of retaliation from the murdered man's gang, Datuk Seri Zahid, who is also Deputy Prime Minister, said: "There is, since it involves secret societies. It is their nature to be vindictive, but the police are always ready. There is never a day without operations being conducted."
The victim was also said to have 14 previous drug convictions.
The victim's wife on Monday took his remains from the morgue of Sultanah Aminah Hospital.
Asked at a function if Tan was indeed a gang leader, Malaysian deputy police chief Noor Rashid Ibrahim said: "We don't want to jump to conclusions, let us investigate first. Based on the information that we have, there's an involvement of money but we don't discount the possibility of it being a triad war."
Two suspects have been arrested in connection with the murder as the manhunt for the four assailants continue.



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Singer reveals full text of SHINee member Jonghyun's death note: "Why did I choose this path?"

South Korean band Dear Cloud's vocalist Nine9 revealed the late Jonghyun's painful suicide note on his Instagram on Tuesday.The singer, whose stage name is Nine9, released the letter with his family's permission, reported Koreaboo.

In a lengthy Instagram post on Tuesday, she wrote: "I was not sure whether I should be posting his will or not, still contemplating in fact, but Jonghyun asked a favour to release his final words if he leaves this world behind. I was really hoping that this day would not come….."

I was broken from the inside.
The depression slowly chipped me away, finally devouring me.
I could not beat the negativity.
I hated myself. Even though I tried so hard demanding my memories that kept getting cut off to 'wake up,' all I got in return was silence.
I'd rather stop if I cannot breathe.
I asked who could be responsible for me.
You're the only one.
I felt utterly alone.
It is easy to say "I'm going to end it."
It is very difficult to actually go through with it.
I've been struggling through the difficulty.
I told myself that it's just me wanting to run away from everything.
It's true. I really did want to run away.
From me.
From you.
I asked, "Who's there?" It's me. It's me again. And it's me the third time.
I asked, "Why do I keep on losing my memory?" They said it's due to my personality. I see. It's all my fault.
I wanted someone to notice (my suffering), but no one knew. Of course, they wouldn't. They never met me before.
I asked why people live. Just. Just. They live "just because."
If I ask why people died, they would probably say they couldn't bear it any longer.
Troubling thoughts flooded my head. I never got the chance to learn how to change dull pain into pure joy.
Pain is just pain.
I kept reprimanding myself not to do so.
Why? Why can't I even end my life with my own will?
I tried figuring out the reasons for my pain and suffering.
I already had the answer. I was in pain because of me. It's all my fault that I carry so many imperfections.
Teacher, is this what you wanted to hear?
No. I didn't do anything wrong.
I used to think that it's so easy for doctors to blame your personality for the suffering in their calm voice.
It surprises me how I am feeling this much pain. Those people, who have suffered worse than I, seem to go on living perfectly fine. Those weaker than I am live on as well. I guess not. Among the living, there is no one who is suffering worse and no one who is weaker.
The only answer I got back was "just live nevertheless."
Asking the purpose of life more than one hundred times is not for me. It's for you.
I wanted to do it for me.
Please don't say things you don't know.
How could you ask me to still look for reasons behind my pain? I told you multiple times why I'm suffering. Do I need more reasons to be in pain? More dramatic details in my stories? More stories even?
I told you already. Were you absent-minded when I told you? Things you can bear and even come above do not leave scars.
It wasn't my responsibility to go against the world.
It wasn't my path to become world-famous.
That's why they say it's hard to go against the world and to become famous. Why did I choose this path? It's quite funny now that I think about it.
It's a miracle that I endured through it all this time.
What more can I say. Just tell me "good job."
You did great. Tell me I suffered enough.
Even though you can't laugh right now, just don't send me off blaming me.
Good job.
You suffered a great deal.
Good-bye.




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Teen model in apparent suicide in Bangkok

BANGKOK - A 19-year-old freelance fashion model reportedly suffering from depression was found hanged late Sunday night at her boyfriend's house in Bangkok's Suan Luang district.
Pol Captain Ariyalertchaikul of Khlong Ton Police Station said officers were summoned to the two-storey house on Soi Pattanakan 48 just after midnight Sunday.

The teenager was found in a second-floor bedroom, hanging from a ceiling fan by a dog leash.
The body showed no other sign of injury and the room was locked from the inside.
The body was sent to Chulalongkorn Hospital for an autopsy.

Police investigation found that Nannpus stayed at the house with her boyfriend of six months.
Police discovered that Nunnpus had last posted on Facebook at 6.39pm on Friday Dec 15.



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Indonesian teen suffers severe head injuries after getting hit by train while taking selfie

An Indonesian girl suffered severe head injuries while she and three other friends were taking a group photo near railway tracks in Purworejo, Indonesia, on Wednesday (Dec 6).
The 16-year-old victim, Ely Hayati had gone for a stroll at the tracks with her friends when they decided to take a 'wefie' - a group selfie - with a selfie stick one of the girls brought, reported World of Buzz and Oriental Daily.The group was busy posing for the photo and did not notice a train which was passing behind them.

Ely, who was at the back of the group, was hit and thrown forward by the force of the train, causing her to bang her head on a concrete slab.
Her friends panicked upon seeing Ely bleeding profusely and quickly ran to look for help.
Nearby residents came and called for an ambulance.
Ely was brought to a hospital for a surgery to stem the bleeding.

Fortunately, Ely survived the ordeal and is in a stable condition although she is still warded in the intensive care unit (ICU).
After news of the incident spread online, some netizens have criticised the teenagers' actions and said they should not have gone so close to the railway



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AVA temporarily restricts some Dutch poultry imports after bird flu outbreak

SINGAPORE: The Agri-Food and Veterinary Authority (AVA) has temporarily restricted the import of poultry and other products from an area in the Netherlands, following an outbreak of highly pathogenic bird flu in a duck farm there.
The import of poultry, poultry products and ornamental birds that come from a 10km restricted area around the affected duck farm in Biddinghuizen, the Netherlands, will be temporarily restricted, the authority said in response to Channel NewsAsia queries on Friday (Dec 15).
This follows the outbreak of H5 highly pathogenic avian influenza in the duck farm.
However heat-processed poultry products, which meet the requirements for the destruction of the virus, will not be affected, said AVA.
So far this year no poultry, poultry products or ornamental birds have been imported from the affected area, the authority added.
The Netherlands has confirmed an outbreak of highly contagious bird flu that has led to the culling of nearly 16,000 ducks, the World Organisation for Animal Health said earlier this week.

The highly pathogenic H5N6 strain was discovered on the duck fattening farm in Biddinghuizen on Dec 7, and a 3km surveillance zone and 10km protection zone were established around the farm.
Source: CNA/nc



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Australia failed children, national sex abuse inquiry says

SYDNEY: Australian institutions "seriously failed" children in their care over decades with tens of thousands sexually abused, the final report from a five-year inquiry said Friday (Dec 15), calling it a "national tragedy".
The government ordered the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse in 2012 after a decade of pressure to investigate widespread allegations across the country.
The commission was contacted by more than 15,000 survivors who detailed claims of child abuse involving churches, orphanages, sporting clubs, youth groups and schools, often dating back decades.
It heard horrific stories during often confronting and emotionally exhausting public and private hearings.
In total, more than 4,000 institutions were accused of abuse, with many of them Catholic-managed facilities.
"Tens of thousands of children have been sexually abused in many Australian institutions. We will never know the true number," the final report said, making hundreds of recommendations to improve children's safety and make it harder for paedophiles to operate unpunished.

"Whatever the number, it is a national tragedy, perpetrated over generations within many of our most trusted institutions."
It said abuse occurred in almost every place where children resided or attended for educational, recreational, sporting, religious or cultural activities.
And it was not a case of a few "rotten apples".
"Some institutions have had multiple abusers who sexually abused multiple children," it said.
"Society's major institutions have seriously failed. In many cases those failings have been exacerbated by a manifestly inadequate response to the abused person.
"The problems have been so widespread, and the nature of the abuse so heinous, that it is difficult to comprehend."
More than 2,500 referrals have been made to police, with 230 prosecutions under way.
Among the 17-volume report's recommendations was the creation of a National Office for Child Safety, and for religious ministers to be required to report abuse confided to them during confession.
During its hearings, the commission heard that seven percent of Catholic priests were accused of abuse in Australia between 1950 and 2010, but the allegations were never investigated, with children ignored and even punished when they came forward.
There were more than 1,800 alleged perpetrators, with the average age of the victims at the time 10 for girls and 11 for boys. The St John of God Brothers religious order was the worst, with just over 40 percent of members accused.

The inquiry embroiled Australia's most senior Catholic cleric George Pell, now the Vatican's finance chief, who was questioned over his dealings with paedophile priests in Victoria state in the 1970s.
Pell is currently accused of multiple historical sexual offences, with a committal hearing in March due to decide if there is enough evidence from the prosecution for the case against him to go to trial




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Boy, 12, flees home as grandparents and siblings are 'murdered and set on fire'

BANTING, Selangor The fire at a house in Tanjung Sepat here, which killed two senior citizens and two boys, took a terrible turn after the police found a slash mark on the victim."The victims are believed to have been killed and burned."However, the cause of death will only be confirmed after postmortem," said senior CID chief Asst Comm Fadzil Ahmat in a statement Wednesday.
Fire investigations at home after fire


Postmortem is expected to take place on Thursday (Dec 14).

He added that the case was investigated under Section 302 of the Penal Code for the murder.

The victim was identified as a 73-year-old man and a 68-year-old woman, while a nine-and-a-half-year-old boy.


In a video circulating on social media, a 12-year-old boy, believed to be the only survivor in the incident, voiced a masked intruder into the house and killed his brothers and grandparents.

He said he was hiding in the toilet during the riot and fired a shot when the intruder left him.



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From childhood friend to torturer: Annie Ee’s sister on the woman responsible for family heartbreak

Annie Ee's sister has told Channel NewsAsia that the prison sentence given to Tan Hui Zhen "is never enough compared to the sufferings my sister has gone through".
SINGAPORE: She was a close friend of the Ee family, and doted on the children. Little did they know that housewife Tan Hui Zhen, 33, would be the cause of devastating heartbreak in the years to come.
More than two-and-a-half years after she was found dead on Apr 13, 2015, 26-year-old Annie Ee Yu Lian’s tormentors – Tan and her husband, Pua Hak Chuan, 38 – have been sentenced to jail.
Now 26, Annie’s younger sister has told Channel NewsAsia of Tan’s transformation from friend to tormentor.

“I’ve known her (Tan) since I was seven. She was always doting on us … I never would have thought that she would torture Annie,” said her sister, who asked that her name was not published.
The couple physically and psychologically abused Annie for eight months, from August 2014 until she died in her sleep, severely injured. The couple had battered Annie’s body and mind and shattered her self-worth. She was beaten daily, taunted and intimidated, and forced to hand over her entire paycheck.
An autopsy detailed the extent of the physical abuse she suffered: Twelve fractured ribs and seven fractured vertebrae, a ruptured stomach and a body crowded with blisters and bruises.
“(Tan) was in total control of my sister,” said the sister, in an interview conducted via WhatsApp.
She recalled the shock of finding out that Annie had been battered and abused by Tan. Though the police had visited the Ee household to break the news of their sister’s death, “we only knew about the abuse the next day, when we saw (a picture of) her bruised face in the newspaper,” she said.
Tan was so close to the Ee family that it was to them she turned to when she faced trouble in her marriage. Once, Tan showed up with a bruised face after a fight with Pua, and the Ee family took her in. “She stayed with (us). We gave her shelter and food,” Annie’s sister said.
“WE TRIED TO STOP HER”
Though Annie was the eldest of the Ee siblings, her younger brothers and sisters were fiercely protective of her.
“Her freedom was sometimes compromised,” her sister admitted, because the family worried Annie would be “bullied or cheated” due to her simple nature.
She described Annie as a friendly girl who loved dogs and who would strike up conversations with strangers.
“My sister felt that our family was being unfair to her (by) not giving her the freedom to make her own friends … she felt that she was old enough to look after herself,” her sister said.
It seems that Annie eventually decided to strike out on her own, and ended up moving into Tan and Pua’s flat in Woodlands.
Annie agreed to earn her keep by doing the housework, but ended up cooking and cleaning for the couple, who “exploited her low intellect and social isolation, and manipulated her into thinking that she was insurmountably indebted to them,” prosecutors had said.
“We realised my sister’s behaviour and attitude started to change … we knew that Tan was trying to manipulate my sister, so we tried to stop her from contacting Tan."
But Annie was very defensive of Tan, the sister said, and drew more distant as her family tried to intervene. “She was in total control of my sister,” she said of Tan.
“My sister loved (Tan) … no matter how we tried to stop her … she didn’t believe what we told her, because she felt that (Tan) was always (on her side).
“Some of the family (went to) where Annie worked, but she would avoid eye contact. We tried getting her number, but she was stubborn and said she would contact us … and asked us to stop forcing her.”

“WE ARE GRATEFUL, TOUCHED BY ALL THE SUPPORT”
When Tan and Pua were convicted of multiple charges of assaulting Annie on Monday, Annie’s story went viral and triggered an outpouring of public outrage and support in equal measure.
“We are really grateful,” Annie’s sister said. “Though some people might have misunderstood … that we kicked Annie out, many others have grieved with us.
“We are really touched by their words - sincerely, thank you.”
Turning to the public apologies by the Tan and Pua families, Annie’s sister said the Ee family “will never be able to forgive what (they) did, especially Tan”.
And while the pair received long sentences, that is scant consolation: “The sentence, of course, to my family is never enough compared to the sufferings my sister has gone through.”
But there is some relief that Annie’s suffering has ended, her sister said.
“We hope she finds peace … be happy … and be free.”
Source: CNA/vc



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1 killed, 2 injured in Serangoon road accident

SINGAPORE: A man was killed and two others were injured in an accident along Serangoon road on Saturday (Dec 2) evening.Channel NewsAsia understands that the accident involved a lorry and a motorcycle.Images and videos circulating online showed a stretch of the road near Race Course lane and Roberts lane cordoned off by police.

The Singapore Civil Defense Force (SCDF) said it received a call for assistance at approximately 7.50pm and immediately dispatched its resources to Serangoon road.
One person was pronounced dead at the scene by paramedics, while another two were taken to Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH), SCDF said, adding that the hospital was alerted to be on standby.
 
Source: CNA/mn
 
 



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S’poreans heap praise on woman who chased down child-kicker in Yishun, man arrested

The man in Yishun who kicked a passing 10-year-old boy for no apparent reason has been arrested under the Mental Health Act, Channel NewsAsia reports. 
The incident occurred on Thursday, Nov. 29, around 12.30pm along Yishun Ring Road. In case you haven’t yet heard about it, here’s the story:

From this unfortunate incident, however, we find ourselves more interested in the stranger lady who managed to chase the perpetrator down, even convincing him to return to the scene and wait till the police arrived.
She has now been identified as one Doreen Chew, a resident of the hallowed Singaporean town Yishun. She relates her experience of the events that unfolded that day in a Facebook post:
According to Chew’s post, she was on the way to buy some books with her daughter when she heard a commotion, and subsequently saw the young boy flat on the ground.
The boy’s elderly relatives were asking for help to catch the culprit, but no one from among the bystanders at the scene went to their aid.

“I have a mental cert” / “Me too”

In the spur of the moment, Chew decided to run after the man.
When she caught up with him at a traffic junction with red light, she described his manner as “defensive and aggressive”. 
Nonetheless, Chew remained undeterred, and managed to convince him to head back to the scene of assault with her.
The man even told Chew that he has a “mental cert”, to which she replied, surprisingly, “Me too”.
Halfway through the walk back, however, the man punched Chew from behind, almost making her fall over.
After a warning from Chew, he stopped the physical attacks, but started ranting instead.
Thankfully, the police arrived just five minutes after Chew called them.
Besides the boy’s family who thanked her profusely, people of the internet were coming forward to heap praise on her as well:

Chew writes in her post: “Nothing beats knowing my kids is as proud of me as I am proud of them.”
Indeed.







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Supermoon will be out tomorrow night, Dec. 3, 2017, visible in S’pore from 11:46 pm

The moon is going to look huge tomorrow night (Dec. 3) because it’s a supermoon.
And it will be the first and last time we will see a visually larger moon in 2017

When to see it in Singapore

According to Moon Phases for Singapore, the supermoon will occur on Sunday, Dec. 3 at 11:46 pm.
Interested Singaporeans can try to catch a glimpse of it around that time.

What is a Supermoon?

A supermoon is popularly known as a full or new moon that coincides with the lunar orbit making an especially close approach to Earth.
It appears to be visually brighter and larger than normal to the naked eye.
The scientific term for supermoon is perigee syzygy.
Gurtina Besla, a professor at the Arizona University, explains:
“Perigee refers to the moon being at its closest distance to the Earth, and syzygy refers to the alignment of multiple bodies — the moon, Earth and sun need to be aligned for us to see a full moon.
So it translates to the closest separation between the moon and Earth when the Earth, moon and sun are aligned.”

Next supermoon in 2018

If for some reason, you can’t catch the moon in its full glory, you can always watch the live stream of the celestial event at the Virtual Telescope (3:45 am ET, or 16:45 pm local time on Dec. 4).
But if you’re too busy for that, you can always wait till the next supermoon occurs on Jan. 2, 2018.
The last supermoon we saw was on Nov. 14 last year. It was the closest to Earth since 1948, making it the largest moon Earthlings saw in 70 years. The next time the moon appears this big will be in 2034.




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Vietnamese girl dies after getting electrocuted by iPhone cable

Most of us probably have dozed off while charging our mobile phones at night. But the seemingly harmless deed cost one Vietnamese teen her life.According to The Sun, 14-year-old schoolgirl Le Thi Xoan died in her sleep after being electrocuted by a faulty iPhone charging cable.
Investigators at the scene speculated that the victim plugged her iPhone 6 and lay on her bed - as she did so every night - alongside it.

They also discovered a burnt white cable with a slight tear in the rubber casing, which left several live wires exposed.The cable also had visible tears on it, which may have electrocuted her with the current, the report said.


A see-through tape was also wrapped around the wire's faulty area, which suggests that Xoan was aware of the tear, but opted to continue using it.Meanwhile, police also noticed that the cable also appeared shorter than the Apple's original 0.5-meter (20-inch) charging device.
Officials were checking if it was indeed an original Apple wire or a third-party device.



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Man who gave $2,000 tip to waitress: It's not about being rich

"We have two hands, one is to work hard and the other is to help others."These words moved Stomp contributor XYW to tears during her night shift at a restaurant recently, and tugged at the heartstrings of netizens after being shared on Stomp.

A single mother of two young kids, Penang-born XYW arrived in Singapore 10 years ago and has struggled to meet ends meet ever since her divorce in 2012."My ex-husband, a Singaporean, left me for a woman from China," she told Stomp.The 37-year-old does odd jobs such as cleaning houses and washing clothes in the day, while her nights are spent toiling away as a full-time employee at a steamboat restaurant in Katong.

XYW, who declined to be identified over fears of losing her job, said: "As I am a Permanent Resident, I have very little subsidies."My take-home salary from the restaurant is $700+ while I can earn $50 for every home I clean (about four hours each time). Sometimes, I have to clean up to 20 houses a month."
Despite her hard work, XYW had hit a rough patch as her children's school fees were overdue and she lacked funds.
But a generous $2,000 tip in cash from a regular customer helped her tide over the crisis.
XYW initially thought the extra cash was a "mistake" as the customer's bill was only $66, but broke down in tears upon realising the truth.
Stomp got in touch with the customer, whom XYW identified as Mr Atwell Tay, to find out what inspired his actions.
"I felt that it was something that I had to. My family is also in the F&B business, so I know what a tough industry it can be, having helped my father in the kitchen before. It requires a lot of energy and can be very stressful.
"She (XYW) is also a very hardworking person, and this is a quality that's hard to find in Singapore nowadays. I appreciate and am impressed by people who work hard instead of stretching their hands out to ask for money," said the 32-year-old oil trader.
Mr Tay, who had been accompanied by his wife and eldest daughter (aged nine) at the restaurant, also encouraged XYW to stay strong and continue to give her best.
STRONG FAMILY VALUES
Mr Tay's love for his family is evident from the way he spoke about them during his exclusive video interview with Stomp.
His main motivation for helping others comes from wanting to be an exemplary role model for his three daughters: "Being humble is a virtue and I want them to see that."
And his moving quote about what our two hands are for? It was a lesson that he derived from his mother when he was 19 years old and had yet to serve his National Service (NS).
Admitting that he went through a rebellious streak during his teenage years, Mr Tay said: "She told me I could do whatever I want, but to always have commitment and consistency, or one would never succeed."
GENEROSITY =/= WEALTH
He first made headlines in 2015 after being given a flashy Lotus supercar by his mother for his birthday that year.
But in response to critics who think that his family background allows him to be generous with money, Mr Tay pointed out that lending a helping hand is not about being well-off.
"Coming from a poor family and becoming rich doesn't mean you will end up helping everyone. Neither does coming from a rich family and being successful mean you will help other people. It all boils down to the individual," he shared.
Likewise, XYW had only good things to say about Mr Tay.
She told Stomp, "He visits the restaurant about thrice a week, always in a different car.
"However, I am really touched because he always clears his own plates, telling my colleagues that it's okay and to relax.
"Whenever I serve wealthy people, they are usually very proud. But Mr Tay is humble and always greets us, saying thank you and everything."
Mr Tay, who is also a venture capitalist, revealed that he is no stranger to people taking advantage of his kindness and generosity.

Still, he remains undeterred and wants to act as an inspiration for the younger generation.
When presented with a Stomp Goody Bag, Mr Tay expressed his wishes to donate it to his daughter's school.
"I would like to donate the Goody Bag to someone else because I am not here for the publicity. I'm here because I hope that more people in our generation can work hard."



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'Monster mum' sentenced to 150 years jail for prostituting underaged daughters

JOHOR BARU - A 39-year-old single mother who forced her daughters into having sex with Bangladeshi men was sentenced to 150 years in prison after she pleaded guilty to 10 charges of prostituting them.She was charged with prostituting the girls to two men at a budget hotel in Larkin Perdana on five different dates - on Oct 1 and then for four days in a row from Oct 4 to Oct 7.

She was accused of selling her children, aged 10 and 13 years old, for RM50 (S$16.20) a session and sometimes the girls would receive RM1, RM5, RM10 or RM20.

Clad in an orange tudung, blue top and long pants, the woman pleaded guilty to a total of 10 charges (five for each daughter on each date).The mother, who was not represented, pleaded for a just a fine, citing that she has two young children aged five and fours years to care for.

Sessions judge Kamarudin Kamsun sentenced her to 15 years' jail for each charge, however, the sentences will run concurrently for charges with the same dates. This means that she is set to spend 75 years in jail.DPP Suhaila Shafi'uddin prosecuted the case.

The accused was detained by police on Oct 25 at their home in Taman Bintang in Senai.
She was living with her daughters, who are from her fourth and fifth marriages, in one of six rooms at a two-storey commercial lot in the area



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S'POREAN GIVES SINGLE MUM WAITRESS $2000 TIP TO TIDE OVER TOUGH TIMES

I would like to share this incident that has happened to me recently. I am a single mom from Malaysia who has a tough time making ends meet working in a restaurant and a house cleaning job in Singapore to support my 2 young kids after my husband left me.

Earlier this week, a couple who is a regular in the place that I work in, came in and ordered their usual soup and food, and 1 coke. I was clearing their table after they finished their meal, the guy casually asked why I look rather sad as usually I'm very cheerful. Previously we casually chat a few times and he notices I am holding many odd jobs and working very hard as a single mother. I told them that I just went to clean 3 houses today and just started my night shift at the restaurant. He asked if everything was alright, so I told him also that my kids childcare fees was due and I am having issues. But I just had to work harder. He then smiled and asked for the bill. The total bill was $66.
After I went to the counter to swipe his Visa card, I realized he put his visa card and 2 pieces of $1000 note into the bill folder.

Feeling puzzled, I thought he made a mistake and accidentally left the 2 pieces of $1000 note inside. When I passed the receipt for him to sign, I return it to him. That’s when he told me something I will never forget, He said " No it's not a mistake, we have 2 hands, One is to work hard and the other is to help others. "

I cried after they left. I wanted to thank him and I saw his credit card name was "Atwell Tay". I searched on Facebook and realized he had appeared in The New Paper before. I would like to say my deepest thanks to him as it tide me over for my kid's school fee. AllSingaporeStuff.com

Xinyu Wang
A.S.S. Contributor




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HEARTBROKEN 19 Y.O. JUMPED OFF 11TH STOREY TOA PAYOH HDB

A 19 year-old Singaporean teenage girl was found dead at the bottom of her Toa Payoh HDB block on Monday at about 5AM.The teen had allegedly committed suicide after a meeting with her ex-boyfriend, with whom she had just had bad break up.

The incident happened at Block 225, Lorong 8 Toa Payoh. Residents reported hearing a loud crash, followed by screams in the wee hours of the morning.The teen's former boyfriend had been the one to inform the teen's parents, who were already at work at their stall in Ang Mo Kio. The boyfriend had allegedly apologized profusely and wept.

The father of the teen says that he and his wife had initially objected to their daughter's relationship because they felt that she was too young, but she had insisted on going ahead with the relationship. They did not expect the relationship to end so tragically.


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S’porean drops brand new S$1,888 iPhone X onto MRT track hours after getting it

A Singaporean man dropped his brand new iPhone X through the platform gap and onto the train tracks at Dhoby Ghaut MRT station after queuing for more than 16 hours for it.The incident occurred on Friday evening, Nov. 3, between 8pm and 9pm.He had only owned the phone for a few hours at that point in time.

This is the heart-wrenching sight:


How it happened

Lee, a 26-year-old game artist, was heading back to Somerset MRT station when he dropped the 256GB silver iPhone X that cost S$1,888.Before this, he had queued outside the Orchard Road Apple store at Knightsbridge Mall on Nov. 2 from 7pm, to Nov. 3, 11.30am, to purchase the phone.That’s 16-and-a-half hours.After he made the purchase, the staff at the store told him to come back at 5pm on the same day (Nov. 3) to pick up the phone, which he did.Once he got the brand new phone, he headed to City Hall for dinner.And then he decided to go back to the Somerset Apple store to purchase something else.

Too fatigued

Unfortunately, Lee was too fatigued from the overnight queuing, and mistakenly alighted at Dhoby Ghaut instead of Somerset.That was when the phone slipped from his hands and through the platform gap, ending up on the tracks.Now that’s a cruel twist of fate: Lee was actually heading back to the Apple store to purchase Apple Care for his new phone.

SMRT staff to retrieve it

Speaking to Mothership.sg, Lee said the SMRT staff will attempt to retrieve his iPhone X after track maintenance has been completed for the day.
He also hopes the phone will be usable if he gets it back, even if it might be in bad condition.mothership.sg



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Couple killed after car smashed by trailer on Malaysia's North-South Highway Read

SEREMBAN, Malaysia: A married couple were killed last Friday (Oct 27) in an accident with a trailer on Malaysia's North-South Highway near the Seremban rest stop.Malaysians Lau Lian Huat, 62 and his wife Lim Ah Gim, 60, were pronounced dead at the scene after a trailer slammed into their car from the opposite side of the expressway.

Dashcam footage of the accident shows that the trailer was travelling southwards on the leftmost lane when it suddenly swerved, cutting across the highway to the rightmost lane and crashing through a guardrail.The trailer then smashed three cars on the opposite side of the highway, including the Perodua Alza belonging to the deceased couple. Three others who were travelling in the other two cars were injured. 


The trailer driver, a 59-year-old Malaysian man, fled from the scene after the crash. He surrendered himself to police on Sunday, two days after the accident.


Source: Bernama/am



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18-year-old student dies in fall after being locked out of 7th floor room at NUS hostel

ragedy struck a residential hostel at the National University of Singapore (NUS) last Saturday morning, when an 18-year-old female student fell and died.The New Paper understands she had been climbing out of a nearby window while trying to reach her room on the seventh storey of the eight-storey Block C of Sheares Hall. It is one of NUS's six residential halls.It is believed the student is a Korean first-year student.A police spokesman told TNP they were alerted to a case of fall from height at around 11.40am that day.

The student was found unconscious and sent by paramedics to the nearby National University Hospital (NUH) , where she died from her injuries.The police have classified the case as an unnatural death and are still investigating.On Wednesday (Nov 1), An NUS spokesperson confirmed the incident with TNP and said: "We are deeply saddened by the incident, and our thoughts are with the family and friends of the student."NUS staff and counsellors are in touch with the student's family and friends to provide support and assistance."

Residents said Sheares Hall and its individual rooms are only accessible using their matriculation cards. According to Sheares Hall's regulations, students who are locked out of their own rooms may approach the hall office during office hours or a resident fellow after office hours. A service fee might be imposed.When TNP visited Sheares Hall on Tuesday evening, most students said they had been advised not talk about the incident to the media and were told to direct all queries to the hall's management.One resident, who declined to be named, told TNP an email had been sent to Sheares' Hall's residents on Saturday afternoon informing them of the student's death. A meeting with all the block's residents was held on Sunday night.

The resident added a wake for the student had been held on Monday evening at Mt. Vernon Sanctuary.It is believed the student had forgotten to bring her room key and could not access her room.Located at 20 Heng Mui Keng Terrace, Sheares Hall offers accommodation for more than 500 students in NUS.In Nov 2015, a similar incident happened in a Choa Chu Kang condominium when Mr Timothy Bell, 22, an Australian jockey, had misplaced the keys to his penthouse at Mi Casa condominium.

He climbed a ledge to enter his unit through a kitchen window but slipped and fell 12 storeys to his death. — ADDTIONAL REPORTING BY JAN LEE



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Japanese food court to open at Changi Airport Terminal 2 on Nov 14

SINGAPORE: Changi Airport's Japanese-themed food court, is set to open on Nov 14 at Terminal 2 of the airport, Changi Airport Group confirmed in a Facebook post
The food court, called Japan Gourmet Hall Sora, will be located on the third floor of Terminal 2's public area, where restaurants Seafood Paradise and Fish & Co used to be. This makes it the largest restaurant space within Changi Airport, the airport management said previously in August.
It will be set up by the trading company of Japanese airline operator ANA, in a joint venture with Singapore-based Kormas Group.

CAG said the concept for the new dining space is a gourmet food market featuring several popular Japanese F&B brands. It added that the 721 sq m space has a seating capacity of 300.

The Nikkei earlier reported that dishes on offer will include fresh seafood bowls and okonomiyaki (savoury Japanese pancakes). According to Nikkei, ANA will invest about 220 million yen (S$2.5 million) in the food court.
 
Source: CNA/kc



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Pakistani wife ‘kills’ husband, 12 others with poisoned lassi

MULTAN: A Pakistani woman who gave her husband poisoned milk ended up killing him and 12 of his family when the tainted liquid was turned into a yoghurt drink and served to him and his relatives, police said.The woman, who was forced by her family into an arranged marriage in September, has been arrested and charged with murder along with her alleged lover, senior police official Owais Ahmad told reporters in central Pakistan’s Muzaffargarh district on Monday.
Police said Asiya Bibi mixed poison into her husband’s milk last week but he initially failed to drink it and it was instead blended into a batch of yoghurt-based lassi and served to the man’s family.
Thirteen people have so far died, including the husband, while a further 14 have been hospitalised, Ahmad said.
“Police have arrested Asiya Bibi, a man and his aunt for being accomplices and charged them with murder,” Ahmad said.
He said the man was allegedly Bibi’s lover and that his aunt helped hatch the murder plot.


Forced and under-age marriages are common in deeply conservative Pakistan, particularly in rural and impoverished regions, where women have fought for their rights for decades.



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Couple who moved in together after dating for 1 week gets married at S'pore cafe

An unlikely meeting of two individuals at a Boracay dragon boat event in May 2015 finally culminated in a union between Stomper Jarrick and his fiancée, Sophie, in Singapore last Saturday (Oct 28). The joyous event took place at at kult kafé, which is located along Upper Wilkie Road.
In a telephone interview, Jarrick told Stomp how the two of them had met as participants in the dragon boat event.

Jarrick said that before meeting Sophie, he had been single for ‘so long and was so old’, that his mother thought that he was not interested in the opposite sex.After getting to know each other, Jarrick continued dating Sophie when the two returned to Singapore after the event.That was when Jarrick popped the question, asking her if he could move in with her.To his surprise, she was agreeable to his request.

Said Jarrick: "I still do not know what came over me I just asked her if I could move my things in. I didn’t even pack for it, so I had to return home for more things."According to Jarrick, Sophie ‘made the first move’ during their courtship, when she offered him antiseptic cream after he brushed against a coconut tree and got injured in Boracay.


However, according to her, it was he who made the first move, going up to her room to ask her if she wanted to have dinner with him and his friends. Although the stories are clearly different, both ended the same way -- a happily ever after for the couple.Let’s wish this couple a blissful marriage ahead!



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Sent a message to the wrong Whatsapp chat? You can now delete it

SINGAPORE: Messaging app Whatsapp has launched a new feature that lets users delete messages that were sent out - within a 7-minute window.In the past, the "delete message" function would only remove the message from the sender's phone, while the recipients of the message would still be able to see it.Now with the "delete for everyone" option, the message will be expunged for sender and recipient(s).But not all traces of the message will be gone as it will be replaced with "This message was deleted".
 
 
Another important caveat is that users can only delete messages for everyone for up to seven minutes after the message was sent.
While the feature reportedly went live four days ago, it appeared unavailable in Singapore.
But as of Monday, at least some users in Singapore have got the latest update, which Whatsapp said would work only if both the message sender and recipient are using the latest version of the messaging app.

According to the Whatsapp website, to delete messages for everyone:
  • Open WhatsApp and go to the chat containing the message you wish to delete.
  • Tap and hold the message. Optionally, tap more messages to delete multiple messages at once.
  • Tap Delete (trashcan icon) at the top of the screen > Delete for everyone.
Source: CNA/hm



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Help needed to locate woman who kept someone else’s handphone!

A netizen went on Facebook to request for help to share her story. She lost her handphone after leaving it behind at a bubble tea stall.After placing her order, and making payment for the drink, she accidentally left phone on the counter and walked away.A lady who was behind her in the queue apparently proceeded to place her order and made payment. In the CCTV footage which the stall manager shared with the phone owner, the lady was seen to make payment for her drink and took the phone and placed it in her bag instead of informing the phone owner.

Along with her handphone, she also lost her Identity Card, debit cards and EZ-link card.
The phone owner requests for help to report the lady to the police if any handphone shop notice the lady selling the said handphone with the following IMEI number:

IMEI1: 867934028058933
IMEI2: 867934028058925



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3 double-decker buses have crashed into same shelter opposite VivoCity in 2017

Three double-decker buses have crashed into the same taxi stand shelter opposite VivoCity in 2017.
The first two incidents earlier in the year involved Tower Transit buses.The latest third incident involved a SBS Transit bus.

Third incident

The latest incident occurred on Oct. 28 at around 7.10pm.
The impact shattered the upper deck windshield of the SBS Transit bus.
No injuries were reported.

The likely causes

In the July incident, the Tower Transit bus captain was reported to have mistaken the taxi stand shelter for the bus stop.
The regularity of such accidents occurring has been debated amongst public transport enthusiasts.
Members of the group pointed out that the taxi stand shelter is only 3.7m instead of the usual 4.5m height, that will allow double-decker buses to easily pass under it.

There is also a tendency for the buses to swerve left to keep to the left-most bus lane, due to the right lanes experiencing congestion with vehicles lined up to turn right at the traffic light junction.



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Arrested: Malaysian man allegedly tries to kidnap 7-year-old girl after molesting her

A Facebook user, Noh Koris, recently shared videos of a man who had been caught allegedly molesting and then trying to kidnap a seven-year-old girl in Malaysia. According to Noh Koris, the incident reportedly happened near the Cheras Ria apartments in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia on October 23, at around 1.45pm. In one of the videos, the suspect was accused to having molested a girl while riding a red Honda EX5 motorcycle.

A man holding a stick could be seen in the second video, interrogating the suspect.
At a point, he raised the stick above his head, seemingly ready to hit him, although he stopped to listen to the girl. Noh Koris also emphasised that the suspect was not a resident of the apartment, reports The Coverage. In another video, police officers could be seen at the scene. According to the New Straits Times, the man was arrested for the alleged offences.


Another netizen commented on Noh Koris’s post, adding that the man in the video had violated his neighbour’s child and the family had lodged a police report.However other netizens criticised the brutality of the resident’s behaviour. Said one Facebook user:“The police have already arrived, so why threaten to hit him?”

City police Criminal Investigation Department chief Assistant Commissioner Rusdi Mohd Isa said the offence was believed to have taken place in a lift of the Cheras Ria Apartment.
Rusdi also added that the girl's father had lodged a police report, saying:
"He (the suspect) has been remanded seven days to facilitate investigations." source




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Singapore Extraordinary People: Cancer 'broke' this little girl - but couldn't beat her

Trinity was just nine when leukaemia took her memory and ability to move or speak. Four years on she is healthy, finished with her PSLE and dreams of being a beatboxing singer-songwriter.
SINGAPORE: The first try fails, and so does the second. She comes agonisingly close on the third, only to fall back in her wheelchair. Perhaps weakened by the exertion, her fourth comes up short too. But she quickly bounces back for attempt No.5: And stands, teetering, leaning on her mother briefly before successfully swiveling around and sitting down on her bed.This was young Trinity’s first time transferring herself from wheelchair to bed - a milestone captured on video in 2013, and symbolic of her wider battle against the blood cancer known as acute lymphoid leukaemia.
 
Mere months before, as a nine-year-old, she underwent three brain surgeries in the space of 10 days to fix complications arising from chemotherapy. The ordeal left her unable to talk or move; she was also robbed of other senses and suffered memory loss.Fast forward to the present and she is a healthy 13-year-old armed with a radiant smile, ready laugh and positive glow about her. With her PSLE completed, Trinity already has an eye on secondary school and beyond, to dreams of a career as a singer-songwriter - who beatboxes to boot.

The question of how she got here elicits a lengthy pause. “Before, I felt like it was useless and pointless, that there was nothing I could do, that there wasn’t a way,” she muses. “I eventually accepted my condition, but that didn’t mean I couldn’t do something about it.”
“I just didn’t want to give up so easily.”This was young Trinity’s first time transferring herself from wheelchair to bed - a milestone captured on video in 2013, and symbolic of her wider battle against the blood cancer known as acute lymphoid leukaemia.

Mere months before, as a nine-year-old, she underwent three brain surgeries in the space of 10 days to fix complications arising from chemotherapy. The ordeal left her unable to talk or move; she was also robbed of other senses and suffered memory loss.Fast forward to the present and she is a healthy 13-year-old armed with a radiant smile, ready laugh and positive glow about her. With her PSLE completed, Trinity already has an eye on secondary school and beyond, to dreams of a career as a singer-songwriter - who beatboxes to boot.The question of how she got here elicits a lengthy pause. “Before, I felt like it was useless and pointless, that there was nothing I could do, that there wasn’t a way,” she muses. “I eventually accepted my condition, but that didn’t mean I couldn’t do something about it.” “I just didn’t want to give up so easily.”

In the middle of the night, she'd start crying or shouting.
It all began with frequent fevers in early 2013, said Trinity’s father Govinda Rajan, 48.An initial blood test came back normal, but during the June school holidays Trinity grew noticeably weaker, prompting her parents to take action.After a second blood test at the hospital, they were informed by doctors that 90 per cent of their daughter’s body was occupied by leukaemia cells.“Her lymph nodes and her heart were swelling, making her chest area bigger - I thought she was maturing early,” said Trinity’s mother Esther Melanie Dass, 44. “She also had a 10cm cyst above her pancreas.”
“The doctor said it was a slightly higher-risk cancer, still curable, but they would have to start chemotherapy immediately.”

The following month of treatment was a difficult time surmounted only by Trinity’s high tolerance for pain, said both her parents.“When the doctor first poked a lot of needles in my skin I cried very loudly. It was very painful,” their daughter recounted. “But as time passed, I got used to it. I could still feel the needles but I would just try to not think about the pain.”She also remembers doctors “inserting a long needle” in her spine, as part of a tri-monthly lumbar puncture procedure to collect fluid surrounding the brain and spinal cord. Then there was the discomfort of a portacath device implanted near her heart, to administer the chemotherapy.

Her eldest sister Tritassha, 17, sometimes stayed overnight to accompany Trinity. “It was really scary because in the middle of the night, she’d start crying or shouting. Sometimes it was nightmares, but other times it was because of the horrible pain she felt in her body.”“But she’s a very determined girl and I think that’s why she recovered a lot.”Govinda agreed. “She’s very strong.”

The following month of treatment was a difficult time surmounted only by Trinity’s high tolerance for pain, said both her parents.“When the doctor first poked a lot of needles in my skin I cried very loudly. It was very painful,” their daughter recounted. “But as time passed, I got used to it. I could still feel the needles but I would just try to not think about the pain.”She also remembers doctors “inserting a long needle” in her spine, as part of a tri-monthly lumbar puncture procedure to collect fluid surrounding the brain and spinal cord. Then there was the discomfort of a portacath device implanted near her heart, to administer the chemotherapy.

Her eldest sister Tritassha, 17, sometimes stayed overnight to accompany Trinity. “It was really scary because in the middle of the night, she’d start crying or shouting. Sometimes it was nightmares, but other times it was because of the horrible pain she felt in her body.”“But she’s a very determined girl and I think that’s why she recovered a lot.”Govinda agreed. “She’s very strong.”
I was very, very scared.
Trinity would require all her hardiness for what was to come next.She had been responding well in chemotherapy and after being discharged, the family thought things were looking up - but a month later in August she contracted a raging fever and was hospitalised again.While visiting her daughter Esther suddenly found Trinity unable to speak or move properly and quickly alerted the doctors.
It turned out she had developed a major fungal infection, due to her immune system being affected by the chemotherapy - and the infection had already spread to her brain, causing severe bleeding.
“There was a 4cm blood clot in her brain,” said Esther.Trinity immediately went through an emergency operation. Ten days later, after exhibiting the same symptoms, she was taken in for a second surgery. This still failed to stop the advanced clotting and she was rushed right back into the theatre.

“The doctor told us the entire left side of her brain was bleeding,” said Esther. “It was a life and death situation. We had to sign a consent form - it was that critical.”Trinity doesn’t remember much of the surgeries - except for the sadness before each. “I cried because I was very, very scared, because my mum couldn’t always hold on to me,” she said.But there was more to fear. After the third operation, the neurosurgeon told Trinity’s parents he had done his best to take out as many blood clots - but there were consequences.“Basically, he said I wouldn’t be taking back a normal child,” said Esther.

The following month of treatment was a difficult time surmounted only by Trinity’s high tolerance for pain, said both her parents.“When the doctor first poked a lot of needles in my skin I cried very loudly. It was very painful,” their daughter recounted. “But as time passed, I got used to it. I could still feel the needles but I would just try to not think about the pain.”

She also remembers doctors “inserting a long needle” in her spine, as part of a tri-monthly lumbar puncture procedure to collect fluid surrounding the brain and spinal cord. Then there was the discomfort of a portacath device implanted near her heart, to administer the chemotherapy.
Her eldest sister Tritassha, 17, sometimes stayed overnight to accompany Trinity. “It was really scary because in the middle of the night, she’d start crying or shouting. Sometimes it was nightmares, but other times it was because of the horrible pain she felt in her body.”
“But she’s a very determined girl and I think that’s why she recovered a lot.”
Govinda agreed. “She’s very strong.”
I was very, very scared.
Trinity would require all her hardiness for what was to come next.She had been responding well in chemotherapy and after being discharged, the family thought things were looking up - but a month later in August she contracted a raging fever and was hospitalised again.While visiting her daughter Esther suddenly found Trinity unable to speak or move properly and quickly alerted the doctors.
It turned out she had developed a major fungal infection, due to her immune system being affected by the chemotherapy - and the infection had already spread to her brain, causing severe bleeding.
“There was a 4cm blood clot in her brain,” said Esther.

Trinity immediately went through an emergency operation. Ten days later, after exhibiting the same symptoms, she was taken in for a second surgery. This still failed to stop the advanced clotting and she was rushed right back into the theatre.

“The doctor told us the entire left side of her brain was bleeding,” said Esther. “It was a life and death situation. We had to sign a consent form - it was that critical.”Trinity doesn’t remember much of the surgeries - except for the sadness before each. “I cried because I was very, very scared, because my mum couldn’t always hold on to me,” she said.

But there was more to fear. After the third operation, the neurosurgeon told Trinity’s parents he had done his best to take out as many blood clots - but there were consequences.
“Basically, he said I wouldn’t be taking back a normal child,” said Esther.

We saw her broken.
Doctors had to carve out a hole in Trinity’s skull and dig deep to remove the clots, in the process touching major parts of her left brain, said Esther.The result? “She couldn’t speak, couldn’t remember our names, couldn’t remember her ABCs, there was totally no movement on her right side, she lost her senses, and it took a while for her to respond when we spoke to her,” said Govinda.“We saw her broken, bedridden, at only nine going on 10…” his wife trailed off, holding back tears.
With their daughter’s body not responding to food, doctors had to pump out up to a litre of gastric juices every day, and were considering putting her on tubes permanently.Trinity remembers this “very frustrating” time. “I wanted to say the words, but I didn’t know why I couldn’t say it out… I think my brain didn’t listen to me.”

But the next year or so of Trinity’s “retraining”, as her father put it, left even doctors amazed, said Esther. “What she went through… it wasn’t expected for her to recover as soon as she did.”
Within weeks Trinity slowly started to speak and recall her memory with the help of family members and therapists patiently interacting with her.

“I still remember my mum started by teaching me three words: ‘I want to’, because I sometimes need this and that,” she laughed.Once, when Trinity was just regaining her speech, she asked Esther if this was happening to her because she was “naughty or mean, or not a good girl”.

“I quickly brought her (two elder) sisters and (younger) brother and they hugged her and kissed her and told her she didn’t do anything wrong, this just happened and she was going to get out of it,” said their mother.

Next thing we knew … She's running.
Then there was the impaired mobility on her right side, which meant Trinity had to switch master hands. “At first it felt really weird, but I slowly taught myself to use my left.”After her discharge - two months from admission - she was still wheelchair-bound and needed to be carried around and bathed, but Trinity started telling herself she was going to get up and walk, said Esther.

She would wheel herself around the house using one leg, and use the window grille to strengthen her limbs by repeatedly sitting and standing. These exercises helped her eventually progress to a walking stick, but she still wasn’t stable, her mother recalled.“Then the therapists started training her and next thing we knew, we threw away the stick and now she’s running.”

While Esther credits her family for sticking together as well as the Children’s Cancer Foundation for providing counselling, therapy and academic assistance, above all she believes it was Trinity’s own willpower which aided in her comeback.“She’s an amazing girl,” said the proud mother. “Honestly, what we saw with our eyes… That was not something we thought could get any better.”

“The doctor said a lot of things about how she was going to be, but she didn’t just take that in and say ‘I’m going to be like that’ - if she did, I don’t think she’d be walking or running or talking or going back to school.”Added Esther: “Every time I feel down or that I can’t do anything, I talk to her, and I get lifted. Because I know (what) she’s gone through, and she’s done it, and it motivates me.”
“We’ve learnt a lot of things from her,” said both father Govinda and eldest sister Tritassha.
I thought people wouldn’t talk to me.
After finishing intensive chemotherapy in May 2015, Trinity could finally install a titanium plate to fill the hole in her skull and the resulting depression at the side of her head.
She also went back to her primary school in January 2016, after a two-year absence. “She puts on her own bag, carries her own stuff and goes to school on her own. She wants to do things independently,” said Esther.Initially, Trinity struggled to pass her exams. The Education Ministry helped by extending hours for her oral and written papers, and after gradually getting back in the groove she has not failed a test since.

Trinity also had other doubts of the social sort. “I thought people wouldn’t talk to me because of my condition. But there’s one girl, she accepts me for who I am. She’s nice, she always helps me… This year, I have another friend.”

Said Esther: “She’s just glad she’s back in school and not sitting in hospital. She treasures this a lot, and is so thankful.”
There are still remnants of trying times past. Trinity sleeps in a hospital bed at home, and she recently had a second, sudden onset of seizures. Brain scans indicated improvement and she was discharged the same day - but her family is well aware she is not yet at a 100 per cent.
Her right hand still cannot grip well and there remains a slight drop foot on the same side, where she dons an ankle brace when going out. But Trinity is, as always, optimistic.
“I have no more difficulty walking about,” she said, with more than a hint of resoluteness. “It’s just my hand. The last bit… it’s just my hand.”
This close to victory, all bets are on Trinity - the cancer survivor, the girl who doesn’t give up - to do something about it.



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2 injured in chain collision on Tampines Expressway

SINGAPORE: Two people were injured in a multi-vehicle collision along the Tampines Expressway (TPE) on Thursday (Oct 26) morning.The collision took place along the TPE towards Changi Airport before the Elias Road exit.The Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) was alerted to the accident at around 8.50am and dispatched an ambulance to the scene. Two people suffered injuries and were taken to Changi General Hospital, SCDF said.Video of the accident on Facebook page Roads.sg showed that the collision involved at least two motorcycles and two cars, including a yellow CityCab taxi.
Video footage shows the taxi slowing down as a red Honda Vezel, unable to brake in time, smashes into it. A motorcycle manages to swerve around the two cars.Another motorcycle follows, but the rider loses his balance as he brushes past the red car. A third motorcycle smashes into the back of the red car and breaks apart. Motorcycle parts were sent flying onto the road while the motorcyclist falls to one side.



Source: CNA/am



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